Sunday, November 7, 2010

Week 14

On Monday and Tuesday, I didn't have school because of some Brazilian holiday. They have the most holidays here, but i am not complaining. I didn't do anything on my days off except lounge around the house with my family. On Monday, we had a churrasco for lunch, so that was enjoyable. School was good this week. I reallllly wish I could like school in the United States HALF as much as I like it here. Random comment, but I finished all the Harry Potter books on Thursday! I can't wait for the movie! :)

Weekends in Brazil beat weekends in America by like 7. On Friday night, I went to Allegro again with Agnes and Bia. We had a lot of fun, of course and I made so many friends. Being American definately has it's ups when being introduced to new people. I met a few of Bia's older cousins and she def has a cool family. Saturday, however, I slept in. On Sunday, I went on a yea long walk with my parents. Yes, a year and an hour are the same thing. It was fun though. :) I am going to miss them when I move in a month.

Sunday, October 31, 2010

After 3 Months

I'm currently sitting here, listening to some good old Trevor Hall and thinking. Thinking about not only how good a week I just had, but how real it is that I am not in America; that I am not spending my junior year at Gettysburg Area High School, that field hockey season has just ended and I haven't been on the field with my girls in so long, that I didn't get to dress up for Halloween and go trick-or-treating (mature, I know.) Of course there are many other things crossing my mind, but number one being that I am not home, but I am still home. After being here 3 months, I think i just started to realize or maybe accept the fact that I am in my own world away from all my loved ones back in America. A year seems like such a long time when I tell people that's how long I am staying here, but is it really a long time? Not at all. Most women live to be at least 80. One year is nothing, but this year, this year abroad for me could be everything! I guess we'll have to wait and see. But really, 3 months down already? I haven't even done that much. Some days I think I will die of boredom and never get out of here, but sitting here, looking back on the time I have already spent in  this amazing new place, I am begging for more time. Holding onto whatever I can get my hands on. Talking to whoever will talk to me. Being friends with anyone who wants a new friend. Living my life for me, and only me. And lastly, writing my memories so that I will never forget...

I think this is the best week I have had so far. Probably just because I had an amazing weekend, but it’s not even a big deal. Nothing really out of the extraordinary happened during the week. On Monday I made my normal walk to basketball only to find 5 of my teammates sitting outside looking confused. Turns out practice was cancelled, so before walking back home, I stayed around for a little just to talk the boys. My Portuguese is a lot better. I actually understand most of what is being said around me; until they start talking fast, then I’m in a daze again. Once I got back to the house, my Rotary counselor called me to see if I wanted to go out for ice cream the next day. A counselor isn’t like for emotional problems, HA… but more like any problem I have while I am here, he’s who I go to. My Rotary club at home says it’s very important to develop a good relationship with our counselor because they are the first people we are to go to with a problem other than of course the family. But if it’s something the family can’t fix, or a problem involving the family, that’s where your counselor acts. Plus, I realized it’s just good to have another adult on your side. On Tuesday, Alessandro, my counselor picked me up and we went to another self-serve ice cream place. Gotta love the self-service. ;) To  my surprise, he speaks English pretty well which definitely helped eliminate any awkward silences when I couldn’t form a sentence in Portuguese. He is very nice and funny, and super easy to talk to. He told me he’s talked to my family and school and I can’t say that I wasn’t surprised by some of the things he said. I mean I get along with everyone here, but the comments were a lot nicer than I would have expected, haha. There is another thing he told me that I can’t exactly blog about, but it’s quite a funny story. On Wednesday, I don’t really know what made school so exciting, but my friend Agnes was more hyper than usual and took a good 2018237 pictures. It was a funny day. Of course I had basketball again which was, like always, a good time. Thursday consisted of nothing new or exciting, but on Friday, we had a chem lab like we do almost every other week and my friend Agnes invited me to go to some Halloween party with her at a club. Of course I’d already been invited, but had no definite plans so told her I’d talk to my parents.
On Saturday, I went to a churrasco for my dad’s work. He works at a bank and his coworkers are quite entertaining. I basically spent no time with the family because at the beginning, my mom and I sat with a man, his wife and daughter, who were very interested in me. When my mom got up, I was still in conversation so couldn’t leave with her, and I basically stayed in conversation with the, the whole day. It was Enguguese I suppose since he’d try to speak English to me every once in a while and I spoke as much Portuguese as I could. Afterwards, my brother Rafael came home because it’s another holiday weekend. I won’t have school Monday or Tuesday. I LOVE all the holidays in Brazil. I had to call Agnes since my parents said I could try to go even if I wasn’t 18. She speaks no English, but we had a successful conversation on the phone. It was kinda funny though, not gonna lie. At 11, my parents took me to the club where I was to meet Agnes, but I saw Bia and Isabella, two other girls from my class, first so we called Agnes who showed up soon after with her boyfriend. The line was literally a block long, and I guess they were all as anxious as me to get in so we found some of their other friends near the front of the line. I met a ton of people that night. Too many names to remember though, unfortunately. The club was 2 stories and also had a spot where you could go outside. I am not quite sure why I took absolutely no pictures, but eh, it happens. Upstairs there was live entertainment while downstairs there was a DJ, a really good DJ at that. Lady Gaga and Ke$ha equals a happy Jade. The live music was good too, though we didn’t spend much time upstairs. In fact, we really didn’t even spend that much time together, haha. The club was too big and there were a lot of people so we kept getting separated. Luckily some of my guy friends from school were there as well and if I wasn’t with the girls I was with them. I heard the band going hard singing some Lady Gaga though. That was definitely impressive. I was out until about 6 am, and even then people were still entering the club. Talk about crazy. I don’t think I have ever slept as well as I did when I got home. The picture of me, actually dressed presentable to go out, in case you read this Linnhe Kapner, you should be proud. :) On Sunday, thankfully I not only got to sleep in, but relax all day. Definitely a good week and even better weekend. The girls said we’ll go out more often since I’m a good time. :)

Sunday, October 24, 2010

Week 12

This week wasn’t the best. I kept waking up in the middle of the night all sweaty. At first I thought I had a fever, but I didn’t have any sort of headache, I was just hot plus I was just kind of frustrated with everything. On Monday was Jasmine’s birthday, yet I never found a birthday card to send, so I walked downtown after school and got some postcards. The fact that I wasn’t exactly sure I knew how to get downtown or where to buy postcards put me in the worst mood. Anger problems? Yep, somedays. On Tuesday, I was once again in a bad mood, yet still, over little things. At basketball, the way I played displayed my mood, and I suppose the boys were a little surprised to see me get mad. Haha, whatever. The only good thing I remember about the day was that I watched the 5th Harry Potter with my little brother. Good thing I am a nerd now. On Wednesday I went downtown to finally send Jasmine her birthday postcard. At basketball I learned how to say like “cocky/annoying” which has already come to great use.  Ronaldo, one of the boys who really knows how to bother me, yet all in good fun, and I played the best out of three 1vs.1 to 5. I beat him in two games. I thought that would make him shut up, yet he still was “fogado” or “cocky/annoying.” Haha. On Thursday, I had a really bad headache so slept almost all evening.
Friday wasn’t bad except for some reason I was really excited for basketball and when I went to leave the house, my mom told me I wasn’t going because I was spending the night at my grandparent’s. She and my dad went to dinner, cute, I know. J My grandpa, who thinks my Portuguese is awful and insists on speaking English with me, was very surprised when I told him “voce nao neccesito falar ingles comigo. Eu quero aprender Portuguese e quando voce fala ingles, voce nao ajuda eu.” (or in English; “you don’t need to speak English with me. I want to learn Portuguese and when you speak English, you don’t help me.”) I’m not going to lie, I surprised myself with that statement as well. On Saturday, I didn’t do much except hang around my grandparents, but I was surprised that I woke myself a little after 9 in the morning. As most of you know, that is very early for me. Haha. I stayed home again on Sunday, but spent the day watching movies with my parents. First we watched “P.S. I love you” which I had never seen before. After, we watched “Extraordinary Measures.” When we watch movies together, we usually watch them in English with Portuguese subtitles so that we can all understand, but the subtitles for “Extraordinary Measures” only caught every other sentence or so. So we watched it in Portuguese, and later I watched it in English. I realized after watching it for the second time in English, I understood a lot more than I thought I had. Go me. Of course, I already know I am going to be very tired tomorrow since I am still awake writing this at 12:43 in the morning. It’ll be a splendid Monday morning for me…

Sunday, October 17, 2010

Week 11

This is my first post of being 17. It feels slightly odd, I suppose. The fact that I am one year closer to legally being an adult is crazy. The fact that I spent my 17th birthday in another country and didn’t get to go to a restaurant of my choice is also crazy. On Monday, a few friends and some family members came over for cake. My second host mom who lives near my house now, came with my soon to be new 3 year old sister. It was pretty fun, my friends and I sat around the table and talked for like 3 hours before eating cake. One of my friends who can speak English got me the best card ever. No, he wrote me the best message in the card. It said, “I couldn’t find you a card with Lil’ Wayne, so I got you one with Snoopy Dog instead…” and then some other stuff, but it was so cute. I’m glad when looking at my ipod, one can tell who has my heart; Weezy F. Baby. :) While my “party” was going on, Anais was on skype with the family. She wanted to be there to sing happy birthday. I love my sister, she’s honestly the best. On Tuesday, my actual birthday, PJ happened to catch me on the computer right at midnight so I skyped with her for the first time since I have been here. We had another churrasco because it was Children’s Day. My other aunt, uncle, and their kids came over along with my grandparents. Once again, a lot of ping pong was played, and even some soccer. Mae decided she’d do my hair for me. It probably took a  good 3 hours because she washed it, I guess texturized?, (I don’t really know, the words she used aren’t in my Portuguese vocabulary yet,) then straightened it. It looked surprisingly good since we all know my hair doesn’t straighten well. On Wednesday I had to go back to school after a 5 day break. It wasn’t even dreadful. OBVIOUSLY I am not in the United States. Haha. On Thursday, I ran some errands with mae. She was telling me what she knew about my second host family and they seem really nice. I am friends with my 19 year old sister on orkut, which is like google’s version of facebook, and we talked. She is only home on the weekends since she goes to school in another city, but she definitely seems cool.

On Saturday, I went to dinner with the family. I had my first Brazilian hamburger. It was really thin, but tasted fine. It didn’t have the exact same taste as ours, but it wasn’t bad. After, we rented a few movies and I watched “The Proposal” with my parents when we got home. I have to say I can’t believe I went this long without seeing it, it is such a good movie! This week seemed to go slower than usual, even with the 2 days off school because I had no basketball at all. Oh well, I’ve got it tomorrow! :)

Sunday, October 10, 2010

Week 10

Another week down. Time actually does kinda fly. Weird. I can’t honestly say my week was splendid. I was just straight up bored. On Tuesday, though, I got a package from Linda. Not gonna lie, she remembered everything I asked for and even gave me some things I forgot. What a champ, she is. :) I spent almost all afternoon making new hemp bracelets since it’s been about 2 months since I’ve made any. I made a necklace for my host mom. She wants me to teach her how to make hemp, only without the hemp cord because she doesn’t like the smell. On Wednesday, Sammy turned 17. That made me realize how close MY actual birthday was. I’m not even excited though? I am turning 17 in 2 days, shouldn’t I be excited?
Friday, which started out wonderfully, I woke up as always around 6:20 but instead of being a zombie, I could actually like open my eyes and you know, function. It was weird and somewhat unexpected because I definitely stayed up late reading on Thursday night. What am I reading? I STAY reading Harry Potter. :)  But anyways, when I got to school, after the first bell hardly any of my classmates were there, and the teacher didn’t show up. I, being always confused, was even more confused than usual. Once my friends arrived, I found out there was a huge test, the way I interpreted it, it was similar to the PSSA for all you Pennsylvania’s. PENNSYLVANIA! Tell me why when I tell Brazilians that is where I am from, they think I mean TRANSYLVANIA or wherever Dracula is from? I can’t tell you how many times I have had to take the United States shaped silly band off my wrist and show them that Pennsylvania is located on the eastern side of the United States. But anyways, back to the test, I lucked out and didn’t have to take it. So after hanging out with my friends for an hour, they went to take the test, I walked home and took a nap. On Saturday I spent the day at home because my brother Rafael came home for holiday. On Tuesday, there is a holiday in Brazil; Children’s day. :) Why don’t we celebrate that in the United States?! Today, we had churrasco at the house. Did I mention I love churrascos? Anyways, my grandparents, uncle, his girlfriend and her son, all came over. I showed the little boy, well, is 9 that little? Anyways, I showed him my silly bands and let him have some. Like most Brazilians would, he chose to keep the soccer ones. We played a lot of ping pong. We as in the whole family. Even my grandpa joined in. It was quite entertaining to watch, he’s such a cutie.

Sunday, October 3, 2010

Week 9

This week was one of the best yet, even though I got sick again. Haha. On Tuesday, I got a fever and my nose became the most runny again. I found out though, that some of my other exchange friends have been sick basically the whole time they have been here as well. On Wednesday, I had a basketball game with my club. The team I played on wasn't the usual boys I play with, I guess boys a year or two younger who weren't as good. It was fun to play in a game though, like with a score board and refs (even if they were just the older boys.) Since after the game we had practice, a couple of the boys and I went to a store up the street to get snacks in between since they were all at the gym to ref and watch. They kept trying to make me say cuss words and other bad things to each other. Luckily, I learned most of the bad words in my first week or so, so I didn't embarrass myself too bad. I lifted with the boys after which felt so good. I missed lifting for sure. :) I wish I knew how many kg were in a lb though so I could know how much I was lifting. I also stopped being afraid to go to the basket and stuff, so I started scoring a lot more than just the open 3's I take. It feels really good to be playing like hard. Especially with such a fun group. :)

On Friday, I went and watched my little brother's school team play soccer. He is so good, like I know I say that almost weekly, but it's true. The family and I went to pizza after basketball practice and my parents told me I could have friends over for my birthday. :) Yesterday, I went to my first real soccer game with rotex! It was so much fun! :) :) :) The team, Corinthians, which my family happens to be crazy about is who we saw. It was a tie game and just crazy. Like the fans get so into it. It was really fun though. Jordann and I were trying to be all Brazilian and mock what all the other fans said. It was quite entertaining. She, Favi, and I went missing basically for a while, because we misunderstood the plans of the day. We thought that after the museum, we could go for lunch in the tents right outside the stadium because they said, "after the museum, you will  have  abreak for lunch." At the last event, we had like 3 hours of freetime in a mall for lunch, so that's what we figured we would have at the game. Big misunderstanding because Rotex got the most upset with us because they thought we were missing. It was not a good situation at all, though we are not missing...and I am alive. :)

Sunday, September 26, 2010

Week 8

I had another good week, though nothing in particular happened. I read lots of Harry Potter at school this week since I don't understand what else is going on. On our math test, I managed to get a few points which I have gotten very few of on all the tests. Haha. Basketball keeps getting better. The boys and I all get along very well and they are all so funny. The one boy is named Douglas so I showed him the song "Teach Me How To Dougie." He thought it was so cool that a song had his name in it. Haha. I'll have to teach him the dance later. :P

On Thursday, it was a year since Megan passed away so I had a tough day. At home, there was a candle lighting commemoration in her honor, so I lit a candle here and listened to one of her cd's. It was very nice...but I wish I could've spent the day with Courtney.

On Friday, after school, I went to Sao Paulo with some of my classmates. We rode a coach bus, which was different for sure. We went to a miltary museum and a mall. On the way to the museum I saw 2 real prostitutes, it was definately  something I had to double take, and so were the people I saw sitting along walls doing drugs. But, the museum was suprisingly really neat. In the mall we had a couple hours free time to eat and shop before seeing a show. I spent most of the time with the boys in my class playing a Brazilian card game called trucca or something. But I also went along with some girls a year or so younger than me. They were trying to pick up guys which is what Kyele and I used to do at Ski Liberty, but to my suprise being American was definately an advantage. Haha. The play was called PMS Katrina in English and histarical. It was from her husbands point of view and though it was in Portuguese, I understood a good bit. On Sunday, I went to a little boy's first birthday party... his dad works with mine. It was really fun. It was kind of like at a Chuck E. Cheese and AllStar mixed except the games were all free. I played a game similar to Air Hockey with my little brother for like a good thirty minutes and played a lot of RockBand because there was a stage in the arcade area set up with a big, widescreen tv, and 2 guitars and drumset. :) It was a good time.

Sunday, September 19, 2010

Week 7

Hm, guess who's sick again? Oh you don't know? Let me just tell you...I am. Rock on. On Sunday evening, my throat started to feel itchy, but I thought nothing of it. Monday, I was basically dead at school, fighting my eyes to stay open all day. I know, that sounds normal because in the United States I passed out in school often, but I didn't go to bed at 10 o'clock in the States, did I? Nope...try like 2am. I was almost hoping that I was getting a cold or something so that I had an excuse to be dozing off in school...I take that back now. Around 5pm or so on Monday, my nose became the most runny and I had the worst headache. Because of this, I didn't go to basketball. I went through a roll of toilet paper blowing my nose and couldn't sleep more than a half hour through the night without the need to blow again. So on Tuesday, I didn't go to school. I had to go to a special doctor, I'm pretty sure it was an ear, nose, and throat, specialist...but my portuguese vocab is THAT good for me to know for sure. I am now on 4 medicines. Two of which are antibiotics which I am to be on for 14 days, and the other two which are nasal sprays I must use for 2 months. Awesome, right? On Friday, my friend from school, Ivan, who is a complete Harry Potter fanatic brought me the first book to read since I am often bored in school. Yes, I finished the whole thing by the end of the day. I never thought I'd be a book worm...this is weird.

This weekend wasn't bad other than still feeling a little sick. On Saturday, some of my mae's friends came over for lunch. I didn't really do much other than spend some time with them all outside. It was nice though, to be able to relax for a day. On Sunday, I woke up around 8 so that I could go to my little brothers soccer game. I watched his game and the younger teams game. I find it kind of funny how sad I get anytime someone scores. Sad for the goalie that is. It's like, I feel your pain. Gosh, I wish I could be playing field hockey...I miss my team. After we got home, my mom and I went to a festival very popular in my city. It is called "Festa de Flores e Morangos" or "Festival of Flowers and Strawberries." The Japanese community runs it and it is very pretty. There are clearly, a lot of flowers, and a lot of strawberries. They make exhibits completely out of flowers which you can see to the left. Aside from trying new Japanese food, I had the best tasting chocolate covered strawberries, ever. It was a fun day.

Yet another week goes by of me being 261870132 miles away from home and the only thing making me the slightest bit upset, though barely, is the fact that I am starting to realize which friends aren't always going to be there. "How?" you might ask. It's quite simple though. The one's who are constantly supporting me and not the ones who care to say nothing more than "hows brazil?...come home." are the ones that matter. I miss you all, really, but this is something I am doing for me. This is an opprotunity that will change my life. This is going to open all sorts of doors for me. I will have passages in every direction, like I'm in Hogwarts or something.

Sunday, September 12, 2010

Week 6

First of all, I was reminded after posting last week that I forgot to mention one obvious fact. I HAVE THE MOST HANDSOME OLDER BROTHER IN THE WORLD! Haha, there you go, Rafael. <3

This has been a very solid week. School, like always was great. Because Tuesday, September 7, was Independence Day of Brazil, I didn’t have school Monday or Tuesday, and my brother, Rafael was home. Those 2 days off consisted mainly of watching the ESPN…the US Open, the FIBA World Cup (basketball,) and of course…soccer. Pretty legit, I know. The 3 days of school I had were good though. I never thought I would say I enjoyed going to school, but I do.

I’m playing basketball at my club almost daily. This week I only went Wednesday and Thursday because of the holiday, and on Friday I spent the night at my grandparents. On Wednesday night, our coach sent me on a run outside with 4 of the guys. It was probably the most fun thing I’ve ever done. First of all, the only English they spoke to me the whole time was “let’s go baby!” or “you can do it baby!” Haha, I love them. My best friends would be a group of guys. Actually, there is a girl who has been coming to basketball with the boys and me as well. She’s pretty chill, and like 7 feet tall. No just kidding, she’s probably like 5’10…but next to me, that’s like 7 feet. No big deal. On Thursday, she was telling me how she plays on a girls’ team that actually has games and such. I of course got jealous but before I could even express that, she told me I should join her and that they only have like 5 players. When my dad came to pick me up, they conversed and she said if they like how I play, I could probably get a scholarship and that it was likely. So I’m pretty excited. :) Oh, Thursday was also the night of the alligator attack, I'm sure you read about that in my last post.

On Friday, I skyped with Taylor and my other field hockey girls. It was really weird that they were all together and I wasn’t there, but it was so good to see them. I talk to Taylor a decent amount, but since she doesn’t have a webcam, that was the first time I have seen her. I expected to become homesick or sad after the chat was over, but I really wasn’t. I do miss those girls like crazy though, but I realized the longer we’re apart; the better things and hanging out will be when I get home. They all had a thousand questions to ask, and they updated me with all the things going on in their lives. Like I said earlier, it is SO weird not being there with them, and even weirder to think that I won’t be for a whole year, but I mean, I’m glad they are all being so supportive of me while I am over here. They are the BEST! <3

This weekend was awesome! Friday, like I said earlier, my little brother and I had slept at our grandparent’s house because our parents went out of town for the night. I love our grandparent’s. They are probably the cutest things, ever. We had pizza for dinner, which required my grandma and me to go pick it up. A little bonding time, cute, I know. My grandpa kept trying to speak English with me which was quite adorable since after everything he said he would say “I don’t speak English.” On Saturday, I took a bus to São Paulo for a project with some of the other exchange students. It was a lot of fun. We walked around the city a lot, went to an art museum, went to the stock house (like Wall Street, it was pretty neat,) and went to a huge cathedral that was absolutely gorgeous. It’s so amazing to be making all the friends from all over the world and so indescribable how well we all get along. Yeah, there are groups that spend more time together than most, but those are mainly, just because they are from the same country, but still, everyone talks, everyone is friends, and everyone loves each other. There are three kids from the United States that I spent most of the day with. Cody, Favi, and Kayla who has only been here in Brazil a week. We ate lunch in a mall, and I hit up some of America’s favorites…Subway and MacDonald’s. <3 Haha. Afterwards, Favi, Cody, and I went shopping. It was so fun. Never thought I’d find a straight guy who had such good fashion taste. :P Haha, I love you, Cody. The picture is of Faviana and I in the city. :) Once I got back to my grandparent’s house, I actually had a decent length conversation with them and my parents about my day…in Portuguese. I also realized, I am thinking in Portuguese. It’s so so so, weird… but muito legal! (very cool!) Today, (Sunday,) I went to my little brother’s soccer game. I still have trouble believing they are only like 13 considering how well they play. My brother’s team won, and my brother got hurt pretty bad. Something happened to his leg, and he was taken off the field on a stretcher. It was pretty scary, actually…like watching. But luckily it wasn’t like our stretchers where he has to be taken right to the hospital and strapped down; it was like two field assistants who carried off injured players so that the game can go on.

After 6 weeks, I am still not really homesick which surprises me…but maybe that’s just because everything is still going well. :)

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

A Lizard on my Wall

I think I forgot where exactly in the world I am. I mean, of course it's obvious that I am in Brazil...but all that tropical stuff I guess slipped my mind. How else would the sight of a harmless lagarticha (lizard) come to me as such a shock? I mean, it's not like it os just chilling in my bedroom, on my wall, like it belonged or something... oh wait, yes, yes it is. It's not like I haven't seen a lizard before, but things that crawl and I do not get along. At all.

Right now, it's 2am...I've got nothing but time, (and to wake up at 6am for school,) so let me go ahead and explain to you the events of tonight and the alligator attack I barely survived. It was a night like any other night. Well not reallllly, because it is Independence Day here in Brazil, so instead of school and basketball, I've just been home with the family all day. The night began to dwindle down to an end at about 9:50 seeings as how my little brother Lucas and I log off our computers and head to bed at 10. As I walked in my room at 9:53, to put on my pajamas and ready myself for bed, I noticed something on the wall up in the corner. It's odd that I noticed it because I never look at my walls...just my closet and bed. But yeah, what is you ask...a lizard. An ugly, let's say about 5 inch long lizard. Not all that big, I know...but big enough to gross me out.

I quickly opened my laptop and waited as patiently as I could for everything to load so I could get on google translate and figure out how to say "there is a lizard on my wall!" Of course, my internet failed, so I just rushed into the living room and awkwardly asked my mom to come to my room since my father was in his shower. She I think felt as awkward as I did as she followed me. As she entered my room, I immediately stopped her and pointed up right to where the lizard was standing...is that the word...still on my wall. It hadn't moved. She giggled. No actually, she laughed. Legit laughed at me. I felt awkward again. She said it's name and told me it eats bugs in the house and was suprised I hadn't seen one before. Stupidly, I asked her if she had one in her room too. Once my dad was out of the shower, my mom brought him in my room to find me sitting on my bed, wide awake, with the lights on, watching it. They both laughed and told turned the light off saying it would leave in the dark. Leave in the dark?...hm, or end up in my mouth. At this point I was desperate to get our of my room so I asked my mom to sleep on the couch. She said "no," laughed, and when she realized how upset I was she jokingly said that it would probably be on the couch by morning. AWESOME! So, I went back to my room for a date with the lizard. I don't think I blinked once in the 27 minutes while I watched it on my wall. Once I was sure everyone was in bed and the lizard was not leaving, I quietly made my way to the living room...where I am now. It is 2:23am and I think I am ready to try things out in my room. I hope the alligator left and doesn't try to attack me again. I mean, hopefully this isn't my last blog post, but I guess we won't know until...

Nah, just kidding, I just checked and it's gone. Sleep. At. Last. Goodnight (to you.) Me, well, I'm going to be having nightmares for weeks now.

Monday, September 6, 2010

My Life After About a Month...

First of all, this first month has been wonderful. Like I tell you all when we have those quick facebook chats. Let me start of by saying, my name is no longer “Jade.” In Brazil, it is pronounced either “Jay-Gee” or “Jah-Gee.” It just depends on the person. At first I was a little uncomfortable just because people would be saying my name and yet I had no clue who they were talking to. But now, I introduce myself by saying, “Oi, meu nome e “Jah-Gee.”” Cute right?

My host family consists of 5 members and a maid. My maid is such a nice lady who comes Monday’s, Wednesday’s, and Friday’s from about 9:00am until like 5:00pm. My mom and dad (mãe and pai in Portuguese) are great. Neither one of them speaks English, but they are very helpful in my Portuguese learning. Some nights my mom will sit on the computer with me as I study and say the words aloud so I know how they sound, while other nights, my dad will read children's books with me. I also have a 20 year old brother, Rafael, who is only home sometimes. He goes to college and lives in another city, so he is only home for holidays. I'd always wanted a big brother, and now that I have one, I don't think I could  have asked for a better one. He speaks very little English, a few words here and there, but he is very nice and only laughs at me for my poor pronunciation sometimes. :) My sister, Anaís, is 17 and literally one of the coolest girls I have ever met. She is fluent in English so she helps me a lot. We also share...well shared, I guess, a room, therefore we got mad close. The past tense in that last sentence was because she recently left for Venezuela because she, too, is going to be a foreign exchange student. I miss her...a lot, but, she did promise she would come to the United States and visit. :) (When I arrived, there was another girl here from Ecuador, Penelope. She’s 19 and another one of the coolest girls I have ever met. She went back to Ecuador only 2 weeks after me getting here. The most sad.) Lastly, I have a little brother who just turned 13. Another family member who speaks no English, so we don't communicate that well, but we do laugh together a lot when I try to talk to him, and when we play soccer together. He is a soccer God, basically. He is never without a soccer ball, which I guess is what you would think when a Brazilian comes to mind. He and I often go outside and pass/kick the ball at each other as hard as we can just to get a laugh. He's cute. I also have other family members, grandparents, 2 aunts, 2 uncles, and a few cousins that I see often. I just love them all. :)

School here is very different. Our first class starts at 7:15am. The teacher shuts the door then, but kids casually walk in after. I mean, there haven't been any drastic tardiness’s, but still, teachers at Gettysburg tend to close the door while the bell is still ringing forcing you to go get a late pass. Rude. We have 6 classes a day, each lasting about 50 minutes. We have 2 classes, then a 10 minute break where we are free to roam the school, eat, play in the gym, and do whatever we want. Then, we have 2 more classes, and after, a 20 minute break which consists of like I said earlier, whatever we want. Lastly, we have two more classes and we are dismissed from school at 12:50. They don't feed us lunch at school, but there is a little concession thing during breaks that's got all sorts of Brazilian foods. Our school is also outside. Not the classes, alone, but the buildings are all separated in an enclosed area. It's not like college, but in a way it is a mini campus. I'll have to post pictures soon. Here, we don't change classrooms...the teachers’ just switch. Because of this, I am with the same like 28 kids all day. It's actually enjoyable. Since these kids have been classmates since they were young, they are all very close. Everyone is friends and it is a very fun environment. The teachers to student relationships also differ. Most teachers are referred to by their first names, and students don't raise their hands. It is sometimes like a zoo in my classroom because everyone talks at once and laughs and goes crazy. It's quite entertaining. To take tests, all 3 of the high school classes, yes, here, there are only 3 years of high school, but anyways, we all go into a large room and are given our tests which last as long as any regular class would. I don't understand much of the lessons in my classes, but I do amazing in English class. Thank you Mrs. Chronister for forcing me to stay awake in your class. :) Haha.

Of course, I am playing sports here. The school doesn’t offer sports like we do in the United States. Instead of each school having a team and competing, we have just afternoon hour and half classes once or twice a week for most given sports. On Tuesday’s I play basketball at the school. Not to be cocky, but since it is a once a week thing, the kids I play with aren’t the greatest. Fortunately, most of them are pretty athletic so running up the court with them is still a good workout. On Monday’s, Wednesday’s, and Friday’s, I play basketball at my parents club with a group of 17 year old guys, who play almost daily…therefore, they are realllll good. Why am I playing with guys, you may ask…my mom thought it was for girls. Turns out the club where they are members has no girls’ basketball program. My mom offered to look at the other city clubs so I play with girls my age, but I decided to stay with the guys. I mean, yeah, they are good. But we don’t have games like in the United States, so I don’t have to worry about sitting the bench. I do everything that the guys do… run, push-ups, sit-ups, use a guy’s ball, and so forth. It’s challenging, but fun. It’s also pretty funny because when I box out and get physical, all the boys apologize for even touching me. I obviously don’t care, I just want to play the game. Only one boy in the gym speaks English, so I have been forced to learn a few basketball phrases. Thankfully I’ve got a decent basketball brain and understanding of the game so when the run complicated drills, it only takes me a minute or two to catch on. When I don’t catch on, the guys are all quick to help. They’re just great. :)

The celebrations here are so fun. For birthday’s in my family, all the family goes to the house of the person’s birthday it is for a meal, cake, and just to hang out. I’ve been to about 4 or 5 family parties so far and I have loved them all. At one of my classmate’s birthday parties, all of her friends were there, plus her family, plus her family friends. It had to be more than 50 people. The best part though, everyone talks to everyone because the people are so nice. I think every house I have been too has a thing in the back for churrasco’s which are like barbeques. Instead of hotdogs and hamburgers though, they grill steak. It is amazing! The environment is just so warm and welcoming at all these family/friend parties, I love it. The most common birthday present I have seen is just a t-shirt. My little brother got like 9 for his birthday from his friends.

The food here is different yet still similar in ways as well. They eat lots and lots of bread and cheese. It kind of sucks that I don't like much cheese...but it's whatever. Almost every day for breakfast, I eat some sort of bread with cheese (like a grilled cheese,) or a grilled ham and cheese. It is a very rare occasion that I eat cereal. When I do, it is usually just granola…the healthy stuff too. They also eat a lot of rice and beans. We eat it almost every day for lunch, and some days for dinner too. It’s actually a lot better than I thought it would be. Maybe I am just used to it. Another food I have had a couple times is pizza. Their pizza is different than ours. The first time I had it, I was very surprised to find the pepperonis under the cheese, and I don’t really know if there was any sauce on it. It doesn’t taste bad, but I could definitely go for Tommy’s pizza. :) The fruit here is dank. Like I am so in love with it…especially the pineapple. It is fabulous. They also have a few other fruits that we have; I just forget what they are called. They have a lot of ice cream shops here in my city, though I have only been to one once. It was self-serve, so basically you pick whatever and however many ice cream flavors you want and load it with whatever and however many toppings you want and at the end of the, I guess buffet line, they weigh and price it. For dessert, they tend to eat brigadeiro. Talk about heaven in my mouth. It’s a chocolate type thing eaten in different forms, but it really isn’t normal chocolate…it is so much better. They also eat a lot of “doce de leite” which tastes a little like caramel, but like the brigadero, is better. It can also be eaten in different forms: right out of the jar on a spoon, in a fudge-like texture, as pudding…you name it! Here, spoons are not used often. I have used a spoon only for cereal, soup, and ice cream. I don’t know about you guys, but in the United States, there is no way I would have tried to things like rice with a spoon. Maybe that’s just me and Jasmine though, we love spoons. Ha. They have this soda here called “Guarana.” It is simply the best invention ever and original to Brazil.

They listen to a lot of the same music as we do. I was very surprised when we were leaving the airport and “Ego” by Beyonce was on the radio. Rap isn’t very popular, so when they ask my favorite musician and I say Lil’ Wayne or Drake, they often give me a confused look. The most common songs on the radio are “Ego,” “Down,” “Do You Remember?,” “Replay,” and “Tik Tok.” Almost everyone knows who Lady Gaga and Justin Beiber are. Most of my friends like Lady Gaga, or at least the song “Alejandro.” Almost none of them, though, like Justin Beiber. Kids at school will come up to me and say “Hi, Jade! Do you like Justin Beiber?” When I respond, “yes!” they almost look disappointed with my answer. I will keep reppin’ my girl Lady Gaga and give them Beiber Fever until the day I get on a plane to come back to the United States. (This should make you proud, Wes Pyron.) They do have their own music as well which I love. Their funk is so epic. Like I’m literally dancing in my seat singing a song called “Creu” in my head. Youtube it. It’s got a dance to it which consists of pelvic thrusting. It’s pretty funny.

The people in Brazil are very different from most Americans. First of all instead of the common head nod and "hey" we Americans great each other with, they give each other big hugs and women kiss everyone on the cheek. When I walked into school the second day with my friend Isabelle, I was unsure what to do when I say her go around a circle of about 10 of our male classmates and kiss them all on the cheek. I was thinking…”am I supposed to do that too?” Luckily, I did because clearly, I was. They were all impressed with my understanding of how they do things. This is their culture, and it is beautiful. I absolutely love it. Everyone is just so, nice and loving.

I'm sorry this is such a long blog. I will post weekly instead of monthly to avoid this! Enjoy and come back soon! Also, I have pictures on my facebook. Feel free to look!

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Inbound Orientation

This weekend may have been the best weekend I have had yet. After about a 4 hour car ride on Friday to a city called Lindoya, I met with the other inbound exchange students in my district. There are kids from all over. We’ve got lots of Americans and Mexicans and even a few Canadians, then some kids from Japan, Taiwan, and Thailand, 2 kids from Denmark, a girl from Venezuela, one from Columbia, one from Slovakia, and lastly a boy from India. I think that covers everyone. It’s so amazing to me how so many kids from completely different places can get together for a weekend and bond like we all did. Everyone speaks English. Well, mostly everyone, the Asian girls struggled with English, and the Venezuelan girl did as well. Luckily, one of the Rotarians was Chinese and could translate to the girls and the orientation itself, was spoken twice, once in English and once in Portuguese. (Therefore, the Venezuelan could understand, and the rest of us could pick up a few Portuguese words.)
It has been quite a long weekend, and I am the most tired, but before I go to bed, I will tell you about the great fun we had. When we first arrived at this glorious hotel, and let me tell you, it was neat, but anyways, we were given our room numbers and got settled in our rooms. Most of the exchange students were already there when I got there and sitting on the steps on the way up to my room. They all greeted me kindly and let me go quickly, knowing I’d be back in just a few minutes. When I came back downstairs, I found common interest with a boy who is about 6 foot 4 and I guess a basketball star at his school. We conversed and shared a few laughs as the group made way to a community type room. In there, I met some older girls, 18, saying how they could have never left home at 16…or 15, which is how old the 6 foot 4 boy, Aden, is. New kids kept dwindling into the group and I was wondering where the Rotarians were when a familiar boy came struggling up to the group with his host parents and luggage. CODY! Yes, how could it be that I would know someone? Cody is a boy from Waynesboro, PA, you know, about 40 minutes from Gettysburg who I happened to ride on the huge plane from DC to Sao Paulo with. What a relief to know someone. Because we’d already met, we found comfort in each other and spent most of the weekend close to each other. Not like that though, no worries.
The first night, at the lectures, most of us were feeling quite grungy and tired. Or maybe that was just me. But anyways, after rotary went over the rules and such they left us with rotex, former exchange students, for ice breakers. The ice breakers weren’t the greatest thought out games, but most of us inbounds bonded over the funny fact that they were a fail. After that, it was time to go to bed, or not. I roomed with 2 girls, Selena from Taiwan, and Amy from Ohio. Because you don’t find many people who speak English so well and that live so close to your home, Amy and I immediately began chatting away. Sadly, there was a slight language barrier with Selena, though we talked with her as much as possible. Amy and I have so much in common, which, not going to lie, I was shocked. It’s almost like we are the same person. We like a lot of the same music, have so many common interests and share so many thoughts on life. We even have the same favorite chewy bar. It was almost scary. We stayed up really late talking until angry Rotarians came knocking on our door. After one time, we giggled about it and continued to chat. After the second knock (pound) we decided it was best to go to bed.
On Saturday, after breakfast, a dank breakfast if I do say, I got sick. Rock on. Nah, it wasn’t sick, it was just a reallll bad headache and stomachache. So yeah, maybe I was sick. During the first lecture, one of the rotex kids caught me struggling and could tell something was wrong so it came to him as no surprise when I told him I wasn’t feeling well. He walked me to my room and let me stay there and sleep until lunch and free time. Luckily by then I wasn’t feeling as miserable. During free time, a girl Favi, from San Francisco, Jordann, a Wisconsin girl, and I watched some of the boys play soccer. Then after a while the lecture began again. Us three, all American, girls sat together and giggled through most of the programs, so one speaker decided to call us out. The whole time. He wasn’t rude or anything, but when he said things about drinking and sex he would look at us and tell the whole group we knew all about it. Favi and I had a lot of fun picking out the flaws in the English we were hearing. No, I think all of the Americans enjoyed that. :P After a while, we were split into groups (Americans, Mexicans, and so forth) with rotex to talk about what teenagers talk about. It was nice to have a chill conversation and hear everyone open up about their lives and experiences. William, the rotex boy who was with us Americans, also told us a few stories about Americans being sent home and told us not to become a story like them. Mr. Stalker… (you other American inbounds are the only ones who will understand that.) After the basically group heart to heart, we had a dance party. On the way to Jordann’s room to get her iPod before the dance party, she kept trying to teach Favi and me some ridiculous dance called “Creu.” Turns out, its Brazilian funk, and about 20 minutes later, the rotex kids taught us. Jordann, Favi, and I were pros though. :)
After the dance party, we were sent to bed. Though Jordann, Favi, and I were far from tired and were still hype from the dance party. Since the three of our rooms were beside each other and had connecting balconies, we did what any other hyper teen girls who wanted to talk would do and hopped our balconies so we could all congregate on one. Rule breakers…sorry rotary. Cody though, was feeling sick and was outside his room below. We talked to him for a while and then led told him where rotex’s room was so that he could talk to them about his sickness. Of course though, he told William that the three of us were all out on Jordann’s balcony so it was quite funny when there was a knock on Jordann’s door how the three of us scrambled back to our rooms. Jordann opened the door, pretending to have been woken up. Then Favi did the same, and thirdly, I did. William called us all stupid and laughed as Cody told us William already knew we were hopping balconies. After Will left, the three of us girls all met back out on Jordann’s balcony. We were told by Will at three different times, from three different places to go to bed. I think he was just jealous he wasn’t in our conversation. We finally went to bed around 3:30. Thank God today didn’t consist of many lectures.
After 3.5 hours of sleep last night, and a day in the pool, I am real tired. Today, we only had about 2 hours of lectures. We learned about the trips that Rotary offers to the exchange student. There are 5 trips. I’m pretty sure I will be going to Iguazu Falls (which will also put me in Argentina and Paraguay) and the Amazon. The way the Amazon trip was described and all the things it consists of are incredible. I really hope they both work out. After lectures, we had free time. Most of us went to the pool since it was really hott. It was really fun. There was a slide and everything. Jordann and I even made a new friend as you can see to the left. He was very suprised and I think impressed when Jordann asked him in Portuguese if we could take a picture with him. He and his friends all laughed we explained we were American. They must have realized that most Americans' don't see men in very small speedos that show off their butts. :P
I am exhausted, but I am so thankful this weekend went the way it did. I have already build friendships and bonds that I could never make in the United States because these kids, like me, are different. We are exchange students. No one, other than us can really understand what it’s like.

Friday, August 27, 2010

Hello There...

I've decided to try an online blog because most of you are asking, "OMG, how is Brazil?!" and my response is always a simple, "GREAT, thank you!" Each day, more and more of you are asking in depth details and sometimes it is just too much to type! Ha. So if you want to know, how I am doing and what is going on in my new life...feel free to stalk me on here! :P Although right now I don't really have the time to write an indepth life story because I am headed to the Inbound Orientation and will spend the weekend with all the other exchange students in my Rotary district, be on the lookout...I will post one soon. :)